Showing posts with label travel. Show all posts
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Sunday, September 30, 2018

The Potter of Akrotiri


Photos taken by me at the Museum of Prehistoric Thera


The Potter of Akroteri*

She has no patience for the way the wind
whips the hair into her eyes and mouth and binds it
with a leather strap. Her back is broad from digging,
her firm arms wedge the clay free of air, her right leg
drives the kick wheel in a relentless rhythm as a pot blooms
between her capable hands. She rises
from the wheel to ease the ache in her hip, takes a sip
of cool water drawn from the cistern below her shop.
Her assistants roll coils of clay into fat snakes
that swallow their own tails round and round
as amphorae grow tall and straight. Far below in the harbor,
ships bear treasures from Crete, from Egypt, from Turkey.
Her vessels will fill theirs, trading olives and wine
from her beloved island to strangers across the sea.
We are ghosts to one another – this potter and me – we share
only the dust of dried clay and the secret knowledge
of our alchemy. In the museum, docents glare as I stand
close to each display as if they know my secret desire
to hold that delicate cup, to stroke the surface of this burnished pot.
Some were untouched by time, freed whole from the ground
that had sheltered them. Others lovingly pieced together,
archaeologists able to separate fired clay from rock and stone.
I lean in to study the decorations: complex spirals
and tiny swallows, their upswept wings captured
in a single deft brushstroke. These shapes are so familiar.
The belly of her cups will fit my palms exactly, as if
this ancient potter had just emptied her kiln
and set them out for me. 
 --LJ Cohen September 2018, Thira (Santorin), Greece


*Inspired by our current travels in Greece, my love of pottery, and the recent discovery that a skeleton discovered on Crete with unusual patterns of wear is in fact of a woman master ceramicist. 



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Sunday, February 05, 2017

Old Friends Newly Met

Yanna, Rick, and I





One of the phenomena of the internet age is the ability to make connections with people separated by geography and joined by common interest.

I've been participating in online communities since the early 1990s and have, in the intervening years, had the chance to meet in 'real life' aka 'meat space' many of the people I've enjoyed computer-based relationships with.

Not one of them has been an ax murderer.

I think it's a function of connecting over shared interests. The reality is that friendships are initially forged through those interests no matter where the friends are located. Relationships are nurtured through shared experiences.

Many people believe that online relationships cannot be 'real' friends. I beg to differ.

Perhaps because I am a writer and have a long history of communicating through words, I took to the internet like a duck to water. Some of my dearest and longest standing friends are ones I made on web forums.

I am currently in Denver, Colorado, staying in the home of one such friend. I initially met Yanna through Google Plus several years ago. I got to meet her in physical life a year and a half ago when her family summered in Vermont. (I live in the Boston area and drove up for a holiday.)

The tall gentleman standing between us in this photo is Rick Wayne, a writer who I also met through Google plus. He and I quickly became fans of each other's writing and became friends. We've corresponded through threads on G+, through email, and through video chats over the years. We're in the planning stages of co-writing a novel.

We've never met.

Until now.

He drove nearly 8 hours from his home in Kansas to meet us in Denver.

And it feel like a reunion with an old friend.

There have been long conversations, laughter, and comfortable silences.

Yanna has been an amazing host, welcoming all of us with open arms and gentle hospitality. My husband and I feel like we are staying with long lost family and happily pitch in with meal prep and clean up, playing with Yanna's dogs, and hanging out with her children.

I feel so blessed to have these people in my life.

No ax murderers need apply.






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Friday, July 29, 2016

Where I am now


First, the physical. As in where I am literally. That would be in Canada. In Mt. Tremblant to be precise. We've traveled up here for a few days so my husband can drive like a maniac on the racetrack while I enjoy the solitude and a rented house with wifi. And, of course, the croissants.

Original cover art, copyright 2016 Chris Howard

Next, an update as to the state of my publishing life. 3 years ago, I co-edited a passion project - an anthology of SF&F stories written by fellow graduates of Jeff Carver and Craig Shaw Gardner's Ultimate Science Fiction Writing Workshop. Pen-Ultimate was a wonderful collection to work on and we chose a workshop model to produce it and decided to donate the proceeds to the SFWA emergency medical fund.

About a year after it was published, we decided to produce a follow up. Pen-Ultimate II took longer than I had anticipated, partly because of some chaotic and stressful personal life events during its development, partly because I was so busy with my personal writing. But, at long last, my co-editor (Talib S. Hussain) was able to keep me on track and we completed the manuscript.

Pen-Ultimate II contains stories by 12 authors, spanning the gamut from fantasy to science fiction to the just plain weird and as with the prior volume, all proceeds will be donated to the SFWA emergency medical fund.

You can purchase it in any of these venues (BN, iBooks, and print forthcoming):
Amazon
Kobo
Google Play

The novels of Halcyone Space

And finally, an update on my own writing. Just about 2 months ago, DREADNOUGHT AND SHUTTLE was released. Not only has it been selling well, sales of all three books in the series have been selling consistently as well - enough so that this latest book has earned back its production expenses in about 6 weeks and enough so that all three books have remained on the top 10 best sellers on one of Amazon's sub-categories of SF books.


As of this week, it's time to get some serious writing done on the as yet unnamed book 4 in the Halcyone Space series.

It is actually fitting that I am here in Mt. Tremblant, starting a new project. It was here, in 2004, where I started my first novel - also while on family holiday. While that one is (and will remain!) safely 'trunked', there is something comforting about the cycle of my writing life. Nearly all my novels have started in the summer. Last year, DREADNOUGHT AND SHUTTLE came into being on the shores of Lake Champlain in Vermont at a dear friend's summer home.

As I type this, a cup of coffee is cooling next to my laptop. The house is silent. I have nothing to distract me. The last time I sat down to draft words on a shiny, new project was quite some months ago. I have been in editing and production mode for what feels like a long while. I feel 'out of writing shape.' My mind is far too cluttered.

Even as I crave the focus of new words and new story, I fear I have forgotten how to begin. I have to remind myself that this, too, is familiar. And I am not starting with nothing. The characters of Halcyone Space are old friends. Old friends who have been patiently (and not so patiently) waiting for me to return.



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Thursday, February 18, 2016

The Power of Place, redux: Iceland

Last week, my husband and I had the chance to explore the southeast coast of Iceland. This was our second visit - we had been there last January and so fell in love with the country and its people, that we had to return.

I'm the kind of person that falls in love with places easily. I typically spend part of my holiday time imagining and envisioning what it would be like to live there. And there have been many places I have fallen for: Scotland, the BVI's, Bozeman, Montana, Portland, Oregon, Vermont, Coastal Maine. . . I think you get the picture.

My husband is more reserved. He enjoys traveling, but doesn't get seduced by the landscape he is visiting. Except for Iceland.


Iceland has won him over in a big way. And I understand why. It is a bit of a magical place. Given how inhospitable it can be - volcanoes, glaciers, parts of the year in near total darkness; other parts in persistent daylight, the need to import most fresh food, the almost total lack of trees - it's a wonder that people have thrived there since before the year 1000. And yet, despite a landscape this is almost always attempting to actively kill you (I jest, but the Katla volcano is well overdue for a major eruption), the people of Iceland are relaxed and pragmatic and thoroughly rooted to their country and culture.






While we have only been in winter, it is not hard to imagine what summer brings to the land. It is still a place of contrast. In the cold months, the landscape is white and black; snow on volcanic rock. In the warm months, the contrast shifts to black and green - the moss that grows everywhere. And since there are practically no trees (certainly not ones taller than a few feet), there's little to impede the sense of vastness.





As much as I consider myself a 'city mouse', I have been drawn to Iceland and its beautiful isolation. The entire country has a population of under 350,000 people. 2/3 of whom live in and around Reykjavik. Which means there are far more sheep and horses in the country than people.





Even the horses are singular. Their fore-bearers came over with the Vikings during settlement and since there are no native horses in Iceland, have had not interference in their bloodlines. Nor are there apex predators for them to fear, so they are more like big dogs than horses; friendly and curious.







On our first visit, by the third day or so, my husband was researching to see if his medical license might transfer. On this visit, he brainstormed several businesses that he thought might be a good fit. It was fascinating to watch his attachment to the place strengthen. Certainly, mine is already there. And I can't help but wonder how being in Iceland would change my writing. Would the me that lives in suburban Boston create the same kinds of worlds as the me living in a place like Iceland? How would I manage in the dark months? How would I cope with the essential isolation of the place? Could I learn the language and truly be part of the culture? Honestly, while I've lived in the Boston area longer than I've lived anywhere in my life, this city has an insularity that I could never crack. I would never be considered a native here. How much more intense the distance between me and a place where the majority of inhabitants can trace their ancestry back to the year 800?



I don't know the answers to those questions. I do know that the place sings to me and I'd like the chance to add my voice to the song someday.




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Tuesday, January 12, 2016

This is where I am

The view from our front porch

 
So I'm sitting in the back of a golf cart just outside Lorraine's Cafe in Black Point, Exuma in The Bahamas doing our daily email check in with the outside world.

This week has been moment after moment of simply being present. 

This is Where I Am

A young black boy loses his hat
from the open bed of a pick-up truck
and I am grateful for his shrug and his smile
as the driver keeps driving. The hat
is a tan smudge on the washed-out road.
It will be there when the man
in the truck and the boy return.
In an hour or a day; it doesn't matter.
It will still be there. Up that same road,
a rooster reminds me it's morning,
though the sun woke me hours ago.
Yes, yes, I see the day, I want
to assure him, but he keeps crowing
and I am grateful for his joyous persistence.

My sister in law made me coffee
in the little pink cottage we are sharing
by the beach. We engage in
synchronized scratching and compare
mosquito bites, our ankles written
in bumps of insect braille. And I
am grateful for this sign of abundance
for the dragonflies who dance and dart
in the air above this wraparound porch
where I can see the waves lap the shore

and the baseball cap waiting for its head
and the half-empty coffee cup
and the rooster who won't shut up
and the dragonflies. Always the dragonflies.

--LJ Cohen, January 12, 2016




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Saturday, March 21, 2015

Then and Now

The boys, then (c. 2002) . . .


and now.
Memory is a funny thing. What we remember is certainly not a literal retelling or reliving of experiences. Science has confirmed what we already know; memory is fluid, selective, and associated with strong emotions.

Our family has been coming to Bozeman for years. My first trip here was in 1988/89 after my husband and I got married. He'd been telling me about his cousins, Frani and Kim, for some time and I imagined two sisters living in a log cabin. It wasn't until we were planning our trip, that I realized my mistake - Kim was a man, and Frani's husband.

For a New York City girl like me, their home was truly in the middle of nowhere. And yet, I fell utterly in love with its beauty and solitude. We visited several more times as a couple, then 'invaded' with first one son, and then a few years later, our second. Over the years, our memories of this place overlapped and merged, much like successive waves on a beach, until it's hard for me to separate out what we did on which visit. Which kid a particular skiing story was about.

On several trips, we have made the trip to visit Yellowstone Park. Only a little bit of the park is open for travel in winter, but one of the most memorable places is the Gardiner river, also called the boiling river. It's where the hot springs dump into and forms a natural hot tub.

Apres a dunk in the boiling river. . . c. 2002?

On the way to Yellowstone, back in 2002, we stopped at a bend in the river to take photos. We found that people had left stone towers at the river bank, so we made our own. Yesterday, 13 years later, we stopped there to have a picnic lunch and build stone monuments again.

By the Yellowstone River, 2015

What we left by the river.

This is the poem I wrote in 2002, from the memories and details of a trip to Yellowstone. I had nearly forgotten about it until we retraced our steps yesterday.



The Devil's Slide
(for Frani and Kim)


Once, before we learned to tame rock,
lay tar paths in straight lines,
men drove cattle through this valley.


We follow the bright ribbon
south and west while it wanders
to meet the road. Our tires
clatter over loose shale.
We stop. Our breath mists
in thin, sharp air.


These mountains towered, old,
eons before hunters stalked
grazing herds across long seasons.

Light glances off glassy water,
amplified. Stones line the river.
I choose one.
It glows in my hand--
a live coal warmed by sun's breath.


Locked in stone,
dinosaur bones sleep
beneath this constant sky.

Along the shore pilgrims have piled
monuments. Some stand
solid.  Some scatter
beneath our shoes.
We make music as we walk.


The earth heaved,
shook, thrust liquid rock
up through fractured land.

I hold this small reminder
even as the road reclaims us.
Its faint imprint burned
in a callused palm.

    - LJ Cohen, 2002

To return to a place that has so many memories is a gift. To be able to create new ones is even a greater gift. Our lives have changed markedly since our first journey out here. We have experienced great joys and terrible losses, both on a personal and a family level, yet our connection and love of this place remains.

I am so grateful for the memories we continue to collect and cherish. 

Namaste, Montana!




 
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Thursday, March 19, 2015

Could I live here? Do I want to?

One of my favorite places on earth: atop Pierre's Knob, Bridger Bowl, Bozeman, Montana

I grew up in the north east - around the New York City area, and although I was raised in the suburbs (an unholy compromise that is the worst of country life and city life in one place) I spent a lot of my formative years in Manhattan. I guess that makes me somewhat of a 'city mouse.' Certainly, I have always been comfortable in cities. I like the energy of a city, the diversity and the mix of cultures, and styles.

The man I married is a self-described country mouse. He prefers open spaces and quiet. He enjoys visiting cities, and then returning home.

We are currently visiting family outside of Bozeman, Montana, staying in a log cabin on 20 acres of land. There is a lot of space and quiet here. Wild turkeys and deer wander the property. At night, when it is clear, the stars are very bright.

We have been coming to visit here for over 25 years and each time, my husband and I would have a conversation about what it would be like to live here. We even have gone as far as looked into real estate, but never went beyond the dreaming stage.

Each time, despite how happy I am here and how relaxed I feel, I wasn't sure I could imagine myself living in a place like this.

But things have changed. Now I am a full time writer and my work is wherever I happen to be. The internet has come to our cousins' cabin, albeit slow service via satellite. Our house would sell for considerably more than we paid for it 22 years ago and cost of living is cheaper here. My children are grown. My need for solitude has also shifted. While I live outside of Boston, I spend great swaths of my time alone, in the 'company' of my characters and stories. And I am happy.

So I wonder - could I live here? Do I want to? 

I'm not sure. I think I could be happy here - happiness is not a product of geography, but of being content with one's self and circumstances.  There's a lot to love, not the least of which is access to amazing skiing and a long winter.

At least for now, I don't see us making such a major change. My husband is not yet ready to step away from his job, and our children are still coming home for school holidays. Home is still home for them. And there's no compelling reason to pull that rug out from under them.

I don't know if this is in our future. Maybe it is. Maybe we'll find ourselves in Western MA, or Vermont, or any one of a hundred places. Maybe our lives will take us in some other utterly unpredictable direction.

With Frani and Kim, circa 2002ish


But change is coming. I can feel it like the shifting of seasons. There will be a time when we will be ready to leave our house, to simplify our lives, to make some choices. Life is short and there are no guarantees. Our cousin's wife passed away in the fall, just a year after she retired, just after she and her husband had started making plans for their new future. I feel her presence here. If she could whisper in my ear, I think she would tell me not to wait too long. To spend less time worrying and more time living.

I wish she had been able to take that very advice. I wish she had had more time.



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Saturday, February 07, 2015

The week that was: Icelandic Edition

Sun Voyager, Reykjavik, Iceland

This past week, my husband and I have been traveling through Iceland - a place of astonishing beauty and dramatic vistas. We have found a land and a people who are well suited to one another. Fierce, proud, and pragmatic, Icelanders are also relaxed and hospitable. Everywhere we went, folks were happy to talk about their country and share its wonders with us.

There will be more photos and tales of our adventures in the days to come.

Tonight, we say "goodbye to the living place, and all I ask it to do is to stay alive." (A line of poetry from James Wright that has stuck in my head from when I read it decades ago.)

This has been one of the best holidays I've ever taken and I am counting the days until I can return.

Friday, January 09, 2015

Trying to find center

Centering the clay, photo by BLW photography, used with permission, CC by 2.0


We are only nine days into the new year, and I'm already feeling overwhelmed. Although I'm not sure why I continue to believe that my life starts on a blank slate every January 1st. I am starting to realize there are not really endings and beginnings, only continuations, as one day blends into the next, one year into the next. It puts the concept of New Year's resolutions into a different kind of perspective for me.

What it means is that at any moment, we can choose to take a new course; that paradoxically, every moment is a chance for something to begin or something to end.

Anyway, enough philosophizing.

Even centering - the title of today's blogpost and the photo used above - is not entirely a metaphor. In ceramics, if the clay is not centered, you cannot throw. That's what happened to me last Friday. I wedged up a half-dozen balls of clay, planning to throw medium and large serving bowls.

What I accomplished instead was an afternoon of mud pies.

Nothing would center. Frustrated, I tried to open the clay and pull up the walls anyway. For my pains, I got what potters affectionately term 'the death wobble.' That's where the opening is not centered (natch - because the clay on the wheel is not centered) and one side of the wall is thick, the other thin. When the wheel spins, the clay wobbles and torques or collapses.

In movement, too, we need to be grounded in our physical center - the center of gravity - in order to function. Otherwise, we fall.

So yes, centering is a very real, physical phenomena.

And it's also a metaphor.

Right now, I'm feeling out of center. There's a lot going on in the next several weeks - much of it wonderful - but still, I'm having trouble staying in balance.

Between now and the middle of February, I will be attending Arisia and participating in the art show, readying TIME AND TITHE for publication, traveling to Iceland for a week (Yikes! But cool!), launching TIME AND TITHE, and attending Boskone, where I'm both in the art show and on panels.

:Takes big, deep breath:

My job in the next few weeks is to look for centering. That means not rushing the process on the wheel at the ceramics studio. That means not rushing about mindlessly (which I was doing yesterday and which meant that I started the day dropping and smashing a wrapped ceramic cup meant for a friend because I didn't take the time to be present.) That means taking the time to breathe, to do yoga, to shut down distractions when it's time to write.

May you be centered in your day and find the balance you need.

Thursday, July 17, 2014

It's Full of Stars

Sunset, Rock Hall, July 2014

This is the view from my in laws' backyard. They live on the Chesapeake Bay's eastern shore in one of the most beautiful places I've ever been. We come for a week-long holiday every summer, and this year was the first time since we became parents nearly 21 years ago, that we have come here without our kids.

Both boys have summer jobs and while they will always be *our* kids, are no longer children. At 18 and  20, they are responsible, emerging adults. So they stayed home with the dogs this week while my husband and I are here, staring out over the water, doing very little of anything. It is glorious. And would have been excruciatingly boring for the boys. They are home, well rid of their parents, alternating between work and killing zombies or somesuch on their computers.

While I spend my time reading and writing, (I got past the sticking point in the climax of TIME AND TITHE yesterday! Yay!)  my husband is playing with his camera. Last night was the first perfectly clear night since we got here. Our first several nights were exciting, with thunder storms and spectacular lightning shows. Last evening, my husband set up his tripod and camera to attempt to take long exposures of the night sky. I am looking forward to seeing the photos he took. The evening was bright with more stars than I have seen in one time since our last trip to Montana. Where we live outside of Boston is too thick with light pollution to do much in the way of star gazing.

One of the things I love to do here is document my observations with little poems. They are written on the fly with very little revision in an attempt to capture a moment in time. This was last night's attempt.

Rock Hall, Evening

Chased indoors by mosquito bites,
I watch my husband's silhouette
lean over his tripod, camera lens open
to the sky. He traps ancient starlight
like fireflies in a jar while I curse
the universe of insects
and the strange chemistry
of their attraction. 

          ~LJ Cohen, July 16, 2014

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Full Fathom Five. . .

100' down in the deep blue sea
We're back in the grey and gloomy northeast after a week away in Florida, grateful for the time with family, yet wistful for the changes and losses we have weathered this year. One change is that for the first time, a family vacation didn't include our eldest spawn, as he's away at college with a different break schedule.

I am proud of him and the hard work he has done to get to where he is, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit how much I miss him and how much our family feels incomplete without him. This is one of the great ironies of parenting. Your children grow out of needing you, faster than you grow out of needing them.

So our youngest spawn gets to deal with all of our attention, without the diversion of his brother. :) And what a holiday he had.

My husband and I have been certified SCUBA divers for 25 years. Our sons got certified 2 years ago, but until last week, we've not had the opportunity to dive since their open water certification. This lovely photo was taken by the dive master during our descent to the Thunderbolt wreck in the Florida Keys. The ship sits on the sand 120' down and it was the deepest dive our son has done.

He did beautifully, and despite my worry beforehand, had no issues at all with managing his equipment, knowing how to be safe, and having an amazing time. Diving the wreck was definitely one of the highlights in his life. 

Mello like jello. . . kiddo hanging over the reef (photo by N Halin)

The underwater world is the closest most of us will come to being in space. It is an alien landscape, not always welcoming to interlopers, certainly one we have a healthy respect for. We take only photos and leave only bubbles. My husband has an underwater housing for his camera and has taken some remarkable pictures.

A school of yellowtail I could never catch

Grumpy Fish!
We were also able to spend some relaxing time with my father. Bittersweet for missing my mother who passed away in September of this past year.


My dad, with my sister and her fiance, myself, and my youngest son.

So the title of this post is a Shakespearean reference from The Tempest, my favorite of his plays.

  Full fathom five thy father lies;
              Of his bones are coral made;
    Those are pearls that were his eyes:
              Nothing of him that doth fade,
    But doth suffer a sea-change
    Into something rich and strange. 

It seems a fitting capstone for our time away. Everything changes. Our lives continually transform before our eyes. Perhaps, if we welcome it, into something rich and strange.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Show me a sign!

I'm not much of a photographer. Ask my husband. He'll tell you. I have a hard time framing what I see in three dimensions into a 2 dimensional photograph. Likely the visual/spatial center in my brain doesn't do its job as well as it could. So I don't really bother schlepping a camera around with me.

I do, however, almost always have my iPod touch in my pocket and it has a camera. While the photos aren't award-worthy by any stretch of the imagination, it does allow me to take quick snaps of whatever I find amusing in the world.

The past few days it's been signs.






This is the door a few doors down from my hotel room in Southern California. Maybe it's a newfangled Californian spelling initiative. Or maybe it's just an expression of the laid back life style. (Yeah, that suite is really sweet, man.) I get a giggle out of it every time I head to the elevator.

                                                                                                                                                                       

Um, really? So which is it?





I'd never seen a sign that told me something *wasn't* and exit. Usually they tell you where the exits are. And isn't it kind of hard to have a path outside that isn't an exit for something?
This was a tattoo parlor. I couldn't decide what bothered me more--
the rabid weasles (sic) or the fact it would be open Tomaro (sic).

There is an enormous amount of beauty here in Southern California. The Pacific ocean is a constantly changing, mesmerizing landscape. I cannot help but stare at the contrast between the ice-blue sky and the dun-colored scrub of the hills and canyons. It is lovely to see the green of trees and flowering shrubs well into November.

Those photos are my husband's department. He'll have the patience to fuss with a camera, lenses, and exposures to get the perfect photograph. His pictures will outshine mine in terms of balance, composition, and artistry, but I think mine are much more fun.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Guest Posts: LJ on the Internet

I've been enjoying the opportunity to network with other bloggers of late and a few of my posts have been out and about on the net.

So for your reading enjoyment:

M is for Metaphor, for the A to Z Blogger's Challenge on The Masquerade Crew

If there's one phrase that every writer has heard ad nauseum, it's "show, don't tell." When I first came across that advice, I understood it in a very narrow context: that I had to describe every aspect of scene, character, and plot, avoiding the use of any sort of exposition.


Eventually, I realized that doing so would result in a very tedious, overwritten story. A more nuanced view of "show, don't tell," is in making sure that the story's language conveys emotion and action without the writer telegraphing it or summarizing it for the reader.  Continue Reading M is for Metaphor. . . 


I've been invited to join a group writing blog called Black Ink, White Paper as a regular contributor.  The lovely folks over there were kind enough to let me guest post with them during my release for THE BETWEEN and subsequently asked me to join their community.  I am pleased to be there and today is my first official post.

Making Room for the World, about travel, exposure to other cultures, and the expansion of creativity.

. . .  The ability to expand beyond your boundaries is a crucial skill for any artist. It is far too easy to fall into the trap of tunnel vision in extrapolating only from what you know. Reading and research helps, but there is no substitute for experiencing life outside of your comfort zone. Read the entire blog post here. . .
 

Monday, August 29, 2011

2,000 Miles

In the past two weeks, we have traveled nearly 2,000 miles.  From Boston to Maryland, back to Boston, to Rochester, to Quebec, and back to Boston yet again.

Along the way, we enjoyed family time, pretended to be pirates, cried as our firstborn left the nest for his first semester at College, hiked, rode horses, and watched cars race, and watched the miles roll beneath our tires.

We are home now.  Some things are familiar here; the dogs happy to see us, our rooms waiting just as we left them, scary food to throw out from the fridge.  Some things utterly strange: one son not living with us, his room quiet, his bed neatly made.  He will always be part of our world, but there will be parts of his world we will not share.

That is a scary and bittersweet place for a parent to be.

Yet I know this is as it should be.

It doesn't mean I wouldn't drive every one of those 2,000 miles again if he needed me to.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Watching the news from afar

There is a strange sort of ironic disconnect that a 24/7 news cycle and the internet allows.  Here we are in Mont-Tremblant, Canada:

 While the news is in an all-hurricane-all-the-time frenzy.  Yes, I've lived through bad storms.  We've dealt with wind, water, and flooding (not to mention fire) in past years, so it's not like I'm blase about disasters.  It's only that the hype seems to obscure the real difficulty and danger of the event.

Ironic.  Like I said. 

We had to turn off CNN last night because it simultaneously made my anxiety ramp up and got me annoyed.  The anxiety because my in-laws live right on the water on the Chesapeake Bay.  They've already lost their home once to a bad storm surge during Hurricane Isabel.  The annoyance factor was from watching reporters in their soaked raingear reporting live and on scene when really they should have been somewhere indoors.  There's news and then there's just stupidity.

I've been following updates from my home town via social media and have found them to be less histrionic and more factual. 

Hoping all of you in harm's way are safe and dry.


Saturday, June 04, 2011

Street Theatre


Walking around Old Town Alexandria last night was a treat for the senses.  It was a lovely evening--cool enough for walking, warm enough not to need a jacket and it seemed like everyone and his brother, sister, aunt, uncle, and cousin were out enjoying the night. 

This gentleman was playing classical music using only water glasses and his hands.  My apologies for the poor video and audio quality as I only had my ancient phone to capture it with.

Enjoy!

Monday, May 02, 2011

A world most of us never get to see

My husband and I have been scuba certified since the early days of our marriage.  In the days when dinosaurs roamed the earth, as my kids like to tease.  We haven't done nearly as much diving as we would have liked; being pregnant and raising kids doesn't leave a lot of ability, time, or money for hobbies like scuba diving.

This year, both boys were interested and old enough to get certified and we planned it so they could do their classroom and pool sessions in the great frigid northeast and do their check out dives in warm Belizean waters.

This is my youngest kiddo in a zen moment at 40 or so feet.

eric 3
photo by N. Halin, used with permission

And a shot of the two of them after their official certification as open water scuba divers:

photo by N. Halin, used with permission

The undersea world is a world of great beauty and strangeness.  Creatures that would be impossible on land, thrive here.  Others who are awkward and lumbering on land show effortless grace.



Photo by N. Halin, used with permission
I have never tired of the quiet and the rhythmic pull and push of the current.  It is the ocean's heartbeat; as rhythmic and as vital as our own.  When we dive, we enter an alien world.  One that is not fully welcoming, but one that tolerates us.


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photo by N. Halin, used with permission

As peaceful and as hypnotic as the world of water is, I never forget, not even for a split second, that I am an interloper.  The sound of my breathing is a harsh reminder that my equipment and my skills stand between me and either serious injury or death.  Yet, I was not worried about letting my sons become divers.  I want them to respect the part of the world covered by water; to experience the otherworldly sense of weightlessness, of quiet, and of the rich variety of life beneath the surface.  I also want them to respect the dangers inherent in any activity.  We take such insane risks on a daily basis.  I think the chances of getting hurt while crossing a busy street or driving a car are far greater then in a no-decompression scuba dive.  And the care we take in handling and maintaining our equipment will probably put any car owner to shame.

Diving as a family has to be one of the highlights of my year.  I am extremely proud of the hard work my boys put in to earn their certification as open water divers.

(Kudos to East Coast Divers in Brookline, MA for running such excellent learning to dive classes and pool sessions, and to Tuff E Nuff dive shop in Belize for running our dives and doing the kids' check out dives.)

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Random thoughts on the morning we return

I'm sipping coffee on the verandah outside our room at the Cocoa Beach resort in Belize. We're mostly packed to leave; the small boat picks us up at 10 to take us to the little airstrip in San Pedro Town. From there, a hop in a 12 seater airplane to Belize City where we transfer to the jet that will take us back home.
This was the week we needed to step out of our lives and simply be.

The place we stayed is quiet, simple. There is no nightlife, no casino or disco. Just palm trees and native bushes, iguanas, magpies, swallows, and frigate birds, the ocean, the reef, two pools nestled among the greenery. And the Belizean people--welcoming, friendly ambassadors of their beautiful country.

I will have to add photos to this post after we get back home. For now, you will have to trust me when I say this is a beautiful place.

I fear jaded western eyes would not see the Belize we see. By Western standards, this is not a rich nation. There is one main road in San Pedro Town. Much of the traffic consists of golf carts and bicycles, not cars. Most of the buildings are concrete, painted with colors fading in the sun. There are no chain stores or what we recognize as fast food. Shops close in the evening.

In the interior, many people live traditionally in the Maya way with thatched roof houses. We went on a tour to the rain forest with several other Americans. I could almost hear the thoughts of one couple; wherever they looked, they saw poverty and slums.

I saw a people proud of their land and their lives. I saw groups of children, happy, well cared for, and so clearly loved.

This is a young country; just 30 years old. When I was in grade school, Belize didn't exist--it was British Honduras. In 30 years, the Belizeans have accomplished an amazing amount: much of the rainforest and the coral reefs that protect the coastline are reserves. It is a crime to harm the mangroves. There is a commitment to ecoturism that keeps development from turning into a runaway train.

This is also a nation where many cultures mingle. Where many languages meld and evolve together. The West has a lot to learn from this tiny nation.

I am grateful that we have had the opportunity to travel outside the US. I am grateful that we have been able to show our children to see other countries and cultures with open eyes, not judging, not measuring by some arbitrary, impossible standard. I am grateful we have had even this small taste of Belize.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Beautiful Belize

Magpies strut and swagger, twig thin
tracks scratched across the beach.
I let the wind tangle my hair, lick my skin
with salt. A gecko, the length of my pinky
waits for me to move, but I am as hungry
for the sun on cool hide as he is.
Palm trees sway, indifferent to the distant
threat of hurricanes. I could drown
in the endless blue, slip inside the narrow gap--
that sharp edge where sky meets sea,
the curved line from a compass point, center
stabbed through my core. A storm
could swallow this place whole, spit
it out along some other, unsuspecting
shore. Maybe if I set down mangrove roots,
I could learn how not to fight tides, remember
how the full moon is only temporary.
ljcohen, April 2011

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Tropical Paradise, part 1

Today we did our first dive in a few years--our first dive with the new gear, bought to replace the gear we lost in the fire.  The reef here in Belize is quiet, but alive.  Today we swam with a sea turtle, ramoras, sharks, and all manner of small fish.  I had forgotten how peaceful it can be underwater.


The boat bucks and I roll
backwards beneath the water's skin.
I am the alien here, bug
eyed, pucker mouthed, fighting
the gear's pull down always down.
Air thrusts up with each harsh
breath, flat and metallic on my tongue.
Ramoras eye me, align round
suckers to my seal black pelt
and swim on. I have nothing
they desire.